It could be argued, No -
they have the right to have privacy.
you should trust them.
you wouldn't like it if they did it to you.
Or, it could be argued, Yes -
they shouldn't have anything to hide.
they should share their life with you too.
it puts your mind at rest that you're not losing them.
it's a normal thing to want to do.
From these points, it kind of seems that the points against are stronger than the points for. But what if there was a reason for you to keep wanting to snoop around?
You'd feel bad for snooping around, but what if you kept finding things you didn't want to see, which gave you more of a reason to look again? Then surely it's not your fault? But is it acceptable or not?
Being honest here, I snoop around my boyfriend's things from time to time. I feel like I shouldn't be doing it, but I always see the same weird things from a girl. This girl is in his past, and in mine too. We both used to be really good friends with her. Except she sent him creepy things about kissing him softly and whispering that she loves him. They never have gone out. That was apparently normal to say that to your best friend. I wouldn't say that to my best friend. She used to rule the guys, and be their Queen, they all looked to her and all loved her. She lead them all on, but didn't even like any of them. She then was bitchy to one of their new girlfriends, and another's love interest, all whilst trying to string along my guy and some of the others. Sending weird manipulative flirty things about wanting them to be with her etc. They all bowed down to her and put so much effort into impressing her. It made me SICK. The guys eventually broke from it and realised what was happening. She tried to guilt trip them back under her curse, but they resisted. They're all now happy without her.
Yet still he has the texts from her saved on his phone.
I want to delete them. But then he'll know I've been snooping.
But is that a bad thing?
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